Sunday, December 19, 2010

Luke 2:10-11

Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people. For there is born to you this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord. Luke 2:10-11

I read and hear these verses this time of year and marvel at the grace that God has given through such a spectacular gift: salvation through Christ. I remind my children often that this is the true meaning of Christmas. However, I run around and get caught up in the hustle and bustle that also goes along with this season, cards, presents, baking, wrapping, programs, the list goes on. I, too, must heed my advice and daily reflect on this gift of redemption and the true meaning of Christmas, and not focus on the list of things to do and buy. Great joy is the news of Christ and the salvation only He gives.

Wednesday, November 10, 2010

1 Peter 3:3-4

Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. 1 Peter 3:3-4

I didn’t think that as I got older I’d still be concerned about my hair, make-up, or what I wear. The struggle with vanity doesn’t cease with age. I’ve been working on spending as much time in prayer and reading God’s Word as I do in getting ready in the morning putting on make-up, doing my hair, and getting dressed. The more time I spend in the Bible, the more I reflect on what my hidden person of the heart looks like in the sight of God. Precious is the adjective I must strive for, and I need to be an example of this to my children, especially my daughter who spends many hours on her outward adornment.

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Matthew 5:37

But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ Matthew 5:37

Here, Jesus is preaching on not swearing falsely and ending with saying that it’s not necessary to even give an oath if you speak what is true. What first comes to mind is a courtroom or a wedding when a couple is saying their vows. But this verse imploring us to “let your yes be yes and your no, no” also applies to any promise you give, whether it’s telling someone you can help out at a school function, or promising your child you will play a board game with them. Sometimes, we don’t take our promises as serious as we would an oath or a vow.

When our children were very young, my husband made a point to not promise them anything that he couldn’t keep. And, if he did promise them something, even as simple as going for an ice cream cone, he did everything he could to carry out that promise. Children often say, “I promise I’ll…,” and not carry it through. We explained this verse to our own children and how important it is to not make a promise that they can’t keep. Of course, we’ve often heard, “you have to, you promised….remember, ‘let your yes be yes, and your no, no’!”

Monday, September 27, 2010

Ecclesiastes 10:18

Because of laziness the building decays,
And through idleness of hands the house leaks. Ecclesiastes 10:18


Before we allowed our house (building) to decay, at the end of the summer, we had our roof assessed by our insurance agent to see if it needed replaced because of hail damage over the course of the past decade. It did. After we purchased materials, we decided to do the roofing ourselves (mostly by my husband). Since school started, he knew he wouldn’t have the help of his wife and children.

Today, we have the day off from school (teachers’ meetings). So, at 7 AM, we all slowly made our way to the roof and began peeling off the old shingles and throwing them into a trailer below. It’s been hard work. Of course, we’ve been hearing a lot of moaning, but I’m reminding everyone of this verse in Ecclesiastes, that through idleness of hands the house leaks. They got a good chuckle from that. It’s actually been kind of fun. Backbreaking (for me anyway, as the age of forty gets closer and closer). Still, it’s enjoyable on this cool autumn morning, to work alongside my husband and children.

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

1 Thessalonians 5:25

Brethren, pray for us. 1 Thessalonians 5:25

Here Paul is ending his first letter to the church at Thessalonica, imploring them to pray for him and those with him who are preaching the Gospel. He does the same in his second letter (2 Thessalonians 3:1).

This is a reminder for us today to pray for not only our minister in our own church, but also those in our community, neighboring cities, across our nation, and around the world. Their work is great.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

2 Corinthians 9:7-8

So let each one give as he purposes in his heart, not grudgingly or of necessity; for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound toward you, that you, always having all sufficiency in all things, may have an abundance for every good work.
2 Corinthians 9:7-8


I’ve mentioned that when my husband and I were first married, we didn’t have a lot of anything. We lived in a trailer, drove two very used cars, and managed to eek out an existence on the salaries of a teacher and a construction crewman (with college debts to be paid). However, we still tithed each Sunday, knowing that we shouldn’t expect to be blessed if we didn’t give to the Lord our “first fruits.”

Through the years, we remind ourselves of what little we had back then and that we were so blessed in many unexpected ways. We’ve never been in need these past sixteen plus years. God sees us through, as long as we are faithful to Him. So when I write a check each Sunday, I smile and think of those early days, and cheerfully give to God.

Friday, September 3, 2010

Psalm 121:1-2

I will lift up my eyes to the hills, from whence comes my help? My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth. Psalm 121:1-2

My eleven year old daughter had a bad day yesterday, mostly that she was homesick. It was heart-wrenching. It’s bound to happen when you’ve been home schooled all your life. I read this passage to her this morning and encouraged her to say it throughout the day when she’s missing me.

This afternoon, she said she had a wonderful day. I’m so thankful for God’s promises. Not only reading His Word is comforting, but it’s real. It’s true. It’s sad for those who do not have that comfort and knowledge, and don’t rely on Him or what He has revealed to us.

Thursday, August 26, 2010

Ephesians 4:1

I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, Ephesians 4:1

We had some big changes this past week. I accepted a job offer to be a personal instructional assistant at an elementary school. Along with this, my own children began a new chapter in their life, as well. They entered the public school. We are all very happy with these changes, but with them have come some challenges.

1. We’re exhausted. For some of my children, school begins at 7:35. With time, that aspect will get better as our bodies adjust.

2. Our evenings are rather hectic. We’re working on improving this area, accepting offers from others to take and pick up our children to and from various activities.

3. We’re a bit overwhelmed. Again, time will eventually make this feeling dissipate.

4. What is most difficult for me is not doing what I love, teaching my children, especially teaching them art, which is the area I have been working on with my Master’s Degree. (I finished and will be receiving my diploma in just a couple of weeks!).

This verse in Ephesians keeps me focused on this new calling I have. God placed me here for a reason. I have a very special child in my care now, with whom I will be working with each day. I pray that I will walk worthy of this calling in this new season of my life.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Philipians 4:7

And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7

I repeated this passage over and over this morning as I was walking to a class to give a final Powerpoint presentation to finish my Master's Degree. This verse is a comfort, not only in instances like this, but in many other areas of life, like the death of a loved one or when major catastrophes occur. I remember hearing someone over the radio (Christian station) say this verse as I was driving the morning of September 11, 2001 to pick my husband up when his car broke down. It was very calming to hear this passage then, just as it was to say them to myself this morning. If my children haven't memorized this verse, yet, they will when I get home! Hebrews 4:12 "For the Word of God is living and powerful..." Indeed, it is.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

1 Cor. 12: 14-21

For in fact the body is not one member but many. If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I am not of the body,” is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I am not of the body,” is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where would be the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where would be the smelling? But now God has set the members, each one of them, in the body just as He pleased. And if they were all one member, where would the body be? But now indeed there are many members, yet one body. And the eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you”; nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you."
1 Corinthians 12:12-21

What does this mean? First of all, we all have gifts that we need to contribute to the church; however, this passage has more to say. Each individual person needs everyone in the church. And everyone in the church needs you, and me. I then go on to read in Hebrews 10:24-25, "And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching."

I was quite upset that I had to miss our evening service at church this past Sunday. It was not a good reason at all. And I know how much others are missed when I sit in the pew while longing for more people to join in the worship and singing. My husband and I tell our children that we go to church because the Bible says so, but it's more than that. When the "hand" is missing, it affects the feet, the arms, etc... 1 Corinthians 12:14-21 paints a beautiful picture of how the body of the Christ (the church) works. We need each other. We all need to be at church in order to do our role. Missing body parts affect the singing, the offerings, and the fellowship, just to name a few.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Psalm 19:1

The heavens declare the glory of God; And the firmament shows His handiwork. Psalm 19:1

Last night on the way home from baseball games, we witnessed a beautiful display of this verse as we saw an awesome show of lightening. While we watched, we gave glory to God, knowing it's His creation and handiwork. Absolutely amazing. I then read this verse this morning and smiled. The second verse goes on to say, "Day unto day utters speech, and night unto night reveals knowledge."

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Psalm 32:7

You are my hiding place;
You shall preserve me from trouble;
You shall surround me with songs of deliverance. Psalm 32:7


When I left home for the first time for college I was miserable. I was lonely and missed my family dearly. As I walked to my classes, childrens' Bible songs would be going through my mind. These songs helped me immensely. They comforted me and reminded me of God's presence. I knew that one day whenever I had children of my own, I'd teach them those songs so that when they found themselves in times of trouble, Bible verses would come to their minds along with those simple tunes.

I did teach them to my children, and still do....Hymns, Psalms, and spiritual songs. I often thank the ladies who lead a sing-along time before our Sunday School hour at church, letting them know how much I appreciate the time they are investing in teaching these songs to the children. And whenever I have nursery duty with the toddlers, I play a dvd with the same songs and sing along during the whole time. The children love it. I hope one day, when they find themselves in times of trouble, these songs will come to mind and surround them with the comfort and knowledge of God's presence.

I still find myself singing a song to ward off any anxiety. It's amazing how much of a stress relief godly music can be.

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Deuteronomy 29:29

The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but those things which are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law. Deuteronomy 29:29

This passage reminds me to not question things that I don't know. Many times I ask, "Why?" But if God hasn't revealed it, then I shouldn't question it, just accept it. This verse doesn't stop here, though. We have the Bible (I thank God for Mr. Gutenberg and his printing press and for all the people in that era who persevered to have the Bible translated into the languages of the "every day people"). I need to dig into the Bible, God's revealed Word, and learn from it. But it doesn't end there. I need to teach it to my children. And there isn't a stopping point, either. There won't be a day that I know it all or that my children know it all. We have to be diligent in reading the Bible everyday all of our lives.

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Psalm 16:3

As for the saints who are on the earth, they are the excellent ones, in whom is all my delight. Psalm 16:3

I love fellowship with other believers. It is such a delight and joy to visit with, share my burdens, or just listen to others who have the same hope in Christ that I do. Take delight in your Christian friends and think of them as excellent ones, blessings from God, whether they are people you see in person, or keep in contact with through the internet.

Friday, May 21, 2010

Matthew 6:25-34

Therefore I say to you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature? So why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin; and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will He not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? Therefore do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For after all these things the Gentiles seek. For your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. Matthew 6:25-34.

My husband and I both have engraved on the inside of our wedding bands, "MT 6:25-34." Today is our 16th wedding anniversary. We married right after college with hardly a penny to our name. Many thought we were crazy to get married. But we knew God would supply our needs. These verses reminded us then and still do today that He will take care of us as long as we seek first His kingdom and His righteousness.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Psalm 146:3

Do not put your trust in princes, Nor in a son of man, in whom there is no help. Psalm 146:3

Many times we rely on people, only to be let down. This verse is a reminder that we should not depend on them, but on God. Psalm 46:1, "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."

Friday, May 7, 2010

2 Corinthians 1: 3-4

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

My prayers go out to those who have lost loved ones to cancer or have loved ones suffering from it right now. I pray that God will comfort them and give me the words to comfort them as well. The Psalms are full of passages that remind us of His comfort and care of those who love Him. And we can also take comfort in knowing that God will not give us more than we can handle.

In Isaiah 53:4 and also in Matthew 8:17, it says, "He Himself took our infirmaties and bore our sicknesses." One day, we won't have to endure them because of Christ's death on the cross.

And in this verse, we can truly rejoice, "And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away." Revelation 21:4

Monday, May 3, 2010

Proverbs 15:13a

A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance...Proverbs 15:13a

This is also repeated in a similar way in Proverbs 17:22a, which says, "A merry heart does good, like medicine..."

I love to laugh, and I know it's good for me, like medicine. Finding the humor in situations makes them much more bearable. Most times we have no control over what happens, but getting angry only reflects an unthankful heart. So, go on and just laugh about it...it's better than any over-the-counter medicine you can buy, and it's free!

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Proverbs 25:11

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver. Proverbs 25:11

The old saying, "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" is so very wrong. Words hurt. That is why the Bible is full of verses that tell us to be careful about what comes out of our mouth.

James 3:8 talks about how you can't tame the tongue. Psalm 19:14 says, "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord, my strength and my Redeemer." Psalm 71:8, "let my mouth be filled with Your praise and with Your glory all the day."

There are many more. Why? Because we need to constantly read it and ingrain it into our minds so that we don't use hurtful words. Teaching this to our children instead of the old sticks and stones rhyme is important. They need to understand that words have meanings and can be very hurtful. My boys are just now understanding that their sister takes their words to her heart much more so than their brothers do. This is a daily lesson. These verses help.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Philippians 2:14 & 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Do all things without complaining or disputing. Philippians 2:14

Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you. 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Those two passages go hand in hand. It's easier to not complain if you are rejoicing, praying, and giving thanks to God.
Now that we have a lot of free time during the day and have had beautiful weather, we've had our kids outside picking dandelions (so they don't go to seed and spread), mowing, planting our garden, vegetables and flowers, and other chores that have been hibernating through the winter. They've been doing a lot of grumbling along with it. My husband and I constantly remind them to rejoice instead of complain. When you rejoice and are thankful, there's less room for complaining.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Psalm 27:14

Wait on the Lord; Be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; Wait, I say, on the Lord! Psalm 27:14

Waiting is very difficult. I have this verse on my computer desktop and on my refrigerator. Few words today to go with this. I wait. The Lord's timing is perfect. Mine isn't. I really like the part about God strengthening my heart.

This also applies well to teenagers (and even those who aren't teenagers) who can't wait for this or for that (boyfriends, girlfriends, driving, cars, jobs, etc...). Again, God's timing is better than ours.

Monday, April 12, 2010

Matthew 11:30

For My yoke is easy and My burden is light. Matthew 11:30

Explaining this passage to our kids today was easy. My husband and I decided to not let the kids watch any tv, log onto the computer, or play video games today as a punishment to the boys for not cleaning their room when they were asked. When they finally did clean it, the job was far from what we expected. Hence, the day of no technology. What made this punishment extremely difficult: they had a lot of free time since we finished our home schooling curriculum last week. Thankfully for them, God blessed us with beautiful weather today. They jumped on the trampoline, collected tadpoles, grafted hackberry limbs with Eastern Red Bud trees, and so forth. They are now finishing the evening with a game of Monopoly.

After dinner, I read this passage in Matthew and said that if they obeyed and followed what God taught in the Bible, life would be easy. Consequences of sin are hard and burdensome. It might not seem that way from the world's perspective, but when you do follow the straight and narrow path, life is easier. This doesn't mean we won't face trials (those are good to strengthen our faith), but there will be far less negative consequences to deal with as well.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Matthew 26:39

He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, “O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will. Matthew 26:39

He is risen. We wouldn't be able to say that if Jesus didn't follow His Father's will. He begged to not have to endure the cross. But He did endure it. For us. Oh that we would follow God's will in our own lives, even as Christ did. That we would pray about decisions that have to be made, that those decisions we make are pleasing to God.

My husband and I have some hefty decisions to make in the next few months regarding our children's education. Thankfully, we're at a point of waiting. All in God's timing. If a door should happen to open, we will take it. If the Lord keeps that door shut, we won't try to pry it open. I'm finally at peace with this.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Hebrews 13:5

Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, "I will never leave you nor forsake you." Hebrews 13:5

My mailbox is bomarded with catalogs almost daily. I have learned to immediately place them in the trash before they lead me down the road to coveting. However, this verse also applies to many other aspects of life. When my children were young, I yearned for the days when they'd get beyond diapers and naps. Many times, I wasn't content with the season in which God had placed me. I'm learning.
I'm trying to teach the same to my children. We're just finishing our ninth year of home schooling. A few years ago, they loved to be at home. For the past couple of years, though, they've acquired a deep curiosity for public schooling. And since our oldest will be in ninth grade next fall, we will probably comply. But for now, instilling in them "contentment" is important. Setting an example for them is even more essential.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Psalm 89:1

I will sing of the mercies of the Lord forever; with my mouth will I make known Your faithfulness to all generations. Psalm 89:1

Spring is my favorite time of year. I love the warmer weather, but most of all, I love to see the grass change before my eyes from a dreary brown to a lush beautiful green. I love to see the flowers that bloom on the trees, that were once stark and bare, and then the trees slowly becoming full and thick with leaves. And we get to see this year after year after year. Truly God's faithfulness shows even in this.

So, I sing....
For the beauty of the earth, for the glory of the skies, for the love which from our birth over and around us lies, Lord of all to Thee we raise this our hymn of grateful praise.

For the beauty of each hour of the day and of the night, hill and vale, and tree and flow'r, sun and moon and stars of light, Lord of all to Thee we raise this our hymn of grateful praise.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Colossians 3:23

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men. Colossians 3:23.

When I was teaching sixteen years ago in North Carolina, I had this verse on my classroom wall to remind my students that their work needed to be the best they could do because ultimately, they were doing it for God, not me.

After having my own children, it's a verse I've ingrained into them and say each morning to them before we start school (usually in our prayer, asking God to help us to remember that our work is for Him and that we do it to the best of our ability).

We also stress this verse and concept to our kids as they participate in activities like Scouts, 4-H, Soccer, Baseball, Basketball, Piano, & Guitar. In order to do well, they need to practice hard and give it their all. This verse in Colossians is a great motivator, as they are doing everything for God, not to impress us or anyone else. It also means that they don't do things half way, whether it's writing a paper or running down the soccer field. There is no slacking. This verse is a great reminder of that.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

1 Peter 5:7

casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7


What a comforting passage. As I begin another grad class, I have to put away my worries and anxieties, and pray for wisdom. I know God will give me the knowledge I need as I write page after page of my final paper. I'm so thankful He cares for me. I just need to remember to give my cares to Him, and not think I'm on my own in this.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

2 Timothy 1:12b

...for I know whom I have believed and am persuaded that He is able to keep what I have committed to Him until that Day. 2 Timothy 1:12b

I love that hymn, written in 1883 by Daniel W. Whittle, music by James McGranahan. After singing it one day, I kept thinking about "I know whom I have believed." Do I? I think so, but I'm learning more and more each day. From where? The Bible. If we don't read it, we won't know what we believe.

The first thing I do each morning is pray and read a chapter in the Bible. New things jump out each day, even if it's a passage I've read or heard hundreds of times.

My husband and I read the Bible to our children everyday after dinner and also at bedtime. I'm also encouraging them to read it on their own as well, to build up a daily habit of personal devotions. Thankfully, they are also being urged by our minister in their Wednesday Bible class, and rewarded with candy. Whatever it takes to establish that habit!

Monday, March 22, 2010

1 Thessalonians 5:18

In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.
1 Thes. 5:18

Last Thursday, the kids were running around outside in shorts. It was in the 60's. (It's amazing how they think that is freezing cold in September, but are ready to go swimming with those temps in March).

On Friday, it was almost as good, in the upper 50's.

Saturday morning, we woke to half a foot of snow on the ground!! I had to keep reciting this verse over and over and over and over.

God sure does have a sense of humor.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Ephesians 4:26

"Be angry, and do not sin": do not let the sun go down on your wrath. ~Ephesians 4:26

The preceding verses talk about putting away our sinful ways, and putting on the new man, living in holiness. The notes in my Bible add, "from uncontrolled anger to self-control." (New Geneva Study Bible).

My husband and I were reminded of this Scripture text during our marriage counseling about sixteen years ago. Although it's not always been heeded, most of the time it has. And with each passing year, it does seem to get easier. However, applying this text to my children has been something quite different, especially when they are wound up at bedtime. I have three sons, whose ages are 13, 12, and 9. It gets worse. They share the same room. (Picture the Brady bunch boys' room).

It seems like every night my voice raises several decibals as I try to get them to settle down and to go to sleep. Just the other night, I happened to read this verse in Ephesians to them before bedtime and was struck by how much I didn't follow it. I typically leave them, angry, to fall asleep. I'm working on this now, to leave with "I love you" no matter how many times I have to return and address any misbehavior. I am also very thankful the Lord blessed me with a daughter (who's 10) who takes after her mother.